Some questions answered
Your staff have made a careful decision of who to bring to the Farm, from potentially lots and lots of young people. This means that they really believe in you and your potential and are sure that you will get a real boost from coming to the Farm, be that confidence, having a break, by being successful in a whole different setting, or examining your behaviour in a an environment away from school.
A visit to the Farm will give you time to enjoy the peace and quiet of the countryside, be really active, and reflect on how things are going with the support of the team who work here. Lots of young people like to see the visit as a fresh start or get a confidence boost from having a go at something completely new and succeeding at it. You will get a chance throughout the week to think about how you can take back some parts of the trip to school or home life, such as getting involved in different opportunities, pushing yourself out of your usual comfort zone, or talking to new people. You will find out new things about yourself and everyone will get a chance to show their best side.
You will also get a chance to try new skills and might find something you really like doing that you would like to do in the future, or learn some life skills to take back with you. Finally, just like a holiday, getting an exciting, challenging, active break away from normal life can give you a boost when you get back!
You will have a chance to do all sorts of activities including farming, cooking, gardening, log chopping, working with the horses, playing games and exploring the countryside. The jobs on farms change all year round and activities all contribute to life on the Farm.
No. It is a small farm and home to some of the staff, rather than a visit centre. You will be staying in the farmhouse or converted barn where we eat, and it will be just your group for the whole visit.
There is a big variety of things to do so we find that there is something that everyone will enjoy. It is unlikely that you won’t like anything. However, the most important thing about coming to the Farm is that you are willing to give things a go and try new experiences, to push yourself and see what it is like doing something totally different. Completing your visit might be, for you, a challenge, but it is one we are sure that you will be able to achieve. In our experience, we have not had anyone come to the Farm who hasn’t enjoyed their trip.
It is possible that you will miss home at some point but if you are feeling upset, there is always someone to talk to. Your days will be really busy and full of things to do, and you will have the team here with you right up until you go to bed so you won’t feel alone. Staying away from home is part of growing up; it is hard if you are doing it for the first time but a good thing to try.
Let your teachers know, or one of the Farm staff who come in to meet you before your trip. We can make sure that you are in a bedroom with someone in the group you trust. If you do wet the bed, you can tell any of us in the morning who will discreetly make sure your bed is clean and dry before you are next in your room. You should not be worried about letting us know, and definitely should still come!
There will be lots of opportunity to work through some of your fears, but also lots of opportunity to contribute to Farm life away from animals too, such as carpentry and wood work, gardening, cooking and walking. Your safety around the animals is very important to us. All the animals on the Farm are used to working with people. You will always be with an experienced farm staff member whenever you are with the animals and you will learn how to look after them properly and safely.
Yes. We have young people from all different religions coming to the Farm. We can organise a place to pray if you want it, have Halal meat, and always have vegetarian food if you do not want to eat meat for religious reasons. If you have any needs that you are worried about you should talk to us in our visit to see you before you come.
We ask that you commit to trying living in a different way for a week, like a life swap. What we eat is part of that. Too much sugar in your diet can mean that your energy will spike at times and be low at others. If you struggle to control your energy or attention, sugar can make it much worse. We need our Farmers to have a constant supply of good energy all day. Part of the experience is cooking and eating together. We are active all day and so always have plenty of food that you will have a chance to help grow and cook; almost all of it coming from the Farm. There is fruit available all day too and we bake a sweet tea time snack before walking. You won’t go hungry!
One of the best things about being in the countryside is the peace and space that you will have to think and get away from your usual worries at home. Bringing your phone will mean you are always half thinking about home, school or friends, and not totally focused on what you’re doing. It can also be unsafe to be distracted on a Farm by your phone. All of the team will be able to get in touch with each other if there is an emergency so you won’t need it for your own safety.
We will be able to get in touch with home on your behalf if there is any reason we think that they should be contacted.
The Farm, being a work place as well as a home, is non-smoking by law as well as preference. The Farm buildings are traditional wood framed, and barns contain materials that could easily catch fire if someone is smoking. Much like the food and phones, we are asking you to try and leave some of your normal habits at home. Smoking is bad for your health and so we would feel we were looking after you fully if we allowed you to do it. As it is so dangerous to the Farm, anyone breaking this agreement that you will sign up to, will likely be sent home. However, we are all here to support you in having a good week. If you are struggling with not smoking, talk to us, and we can make sure you have patches if you want them or support where we can.
We will provide you with overalls to cover your clothes on the Farm, and wellington boots if you don’t have your own. We also have enough waterproof trousers and jackets for everyone. In addition, we have spare jumpers and warm things if the weather is cold. Don’t go and buy anything new as it still might get dirty, but your older usual clothes will be fine. Don’t let this stop you from coming!
It would be lovely to have everyone on the Farm who wanted to come! However, visits are limited to schools or organisations such as youth groups, who will bring 10-12 people at a time. You can talk to your staff about the possibility of a visit, but be aware that there are lots of reasons why someone might be selected for a trip that might not work for you. We would love you to come along with a parent or guardian and have a look around on our open day in September.
It is always tricky to have young people working alongside other young people who are visiting the Farm, due to things like accommodation and safety. In some exceptional circumstances we can consider this for those who have visited the farm a number of times before, in consultation with teachers. However, it is unlikely to be possible in general cases.